I had to go on welfare for a bit after hardy#2 was born. he was very ill and I needed to stay home because I had to run to the hospital at least 3 times a day (half hour drive)

I remember having to account for every cent

it was horrid

and yes...technically you have to list H as it was his job. you would need verification if it was from a savings account just in your name or whatever...

you can call a lawyer and ask (free question type thing) but I believe that is what you have to do