Drowning still - 23 years, feel like I am sinking

[CBK]

Puppy - I didn't tell her any dates or anything - I have my own internal dates like you. Last night, during my backslide, I did say almost the exact same thing "I love you and I don't want us to end our marriage - I am going to work on saving this marriage and I hope I can be there if you decide you are willing to work as well" or something like this.

Great advice, I would never tell her a deadline - as one would never know what else may happen.

CBK