I'll think about that over the weekend. Sometimes I think maybe I should let her get on with it. Go through with the divorce. Focus on my children and only act if something warrants it. I do not wish to get in the way of her happiness. I still care about her having spent 17yrs together, but not in the romantic way. I just think that she is not thinking straight and that she should take things slowly until she really gets to know OM rather than force his presence on my boys who would be very reluctant to have to share a house with him. My boys are strong minded and would not tolerate taking second place. As it is they are currently battling top dog position in the house as my ex tells me.
Anyway, it is always good to sleep on things. BTW, my boys are taking me out for my birthday tomorrow lunchtime and I am going out with my new woman in the evening. It is a surprise so I don't know where she is taking me. I can't wait!
