To me, being still means just that....

Stop trying to rush things or push things along.

Learn how to live one day at a time and stop allowing the anxiety of this situation to rule your life.

For me, it meant getting right with God, and allowing Him to make those choices for me.

Stop allowing fear to dictate your every move.

BT, the worst has already happened.

You did not die.

The rest of this journey is learning how to do things for yourself, by yourself, to make yourself happy.

IF Divorce is NOT what you want, then stop making things move in that direction.

Ask the Lawyer to stall things.

You will become like a dog chasing his own tail if you do not stop spinning.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.