I agree, don't allow him to destroy your credit. If things don't work out then it will be even more important for you to have good credit. Sara, you read on my thread how I struggled with that too...I too am the breadwinner! I think as long as you can pay the bills that have your name on them then you should do that or least make sure that they are being paid on time. If he can't pay for his car...maybe he should sell it and get a beater...something you should ask the lawyer about too.

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I've read a couple threads from men who's wives were cheating on them and they decided to kick the wife out, which actually led to huge, positive steps in their marriages.

I think the problem she is having here is HOW she would kick him out...I believe she has addressed this with him before. He won't leave!!!! THAT is why this appt. with the lawyer is important...so that if/when you do get to that point you know what steps to take and what you can legally do.

Kris