I've read a couple threads from men who's wives were cheating on them and they decided to kick the wife out, which actually led to huge, positive steps in their marriages. I think you're taking care of him too much. I know you say he can't afford to move out, but you DO NOT need to endure what he's putting you through. His actions are putting you in a difficult situation and you need to do what you need to do to protect yourself financially and emotionally. DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO DESTROY YOUR CREDIT. He's destroyed too much of you as it is.
I'm glad you made an appointment with the lawyer. I'll be thinking of you and wishing you peace of mind. It's so HARD.
(((((((starshyne))))))
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence