"There are times when I blow him off and then he calls/txt repeatedly. Then there are times when he couldn't care less, it seems. It's beyond me how he can just toss me aside and replace me so easily."

B, this is still another assumption. I know your assuming that because he's not calling/txting that it means he could care less...but what if instead he's feeling hurt and therefore not wanting to contact. who really knows. You can feel that he doesn't care, but you really don't know.

this is part of not taking things personally. all of us don't ever really know the EXACT reasons why our spouses do the things they do, and it could very well have nothing to do with us.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."