(((((((Neecy,)))))))

I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time \:\( . Dark days are no joy.

I was like you. Never had been alone before. I moved straight from my parents' house into another house with H. Those first couple of months after he moved out were the toughest, saddest, darkest days up to that point in my life. However, they were also the calmest, least stressful days for me. No more creeping on eggshells, no more having to hide the pain. I could just be by myself and let it all out (while the kids were in school, of course!).

After giving myself plenty of time to grieve, I began to feel better, and I soon realized that I had "survived" what I thought I never could. I used to think I couldn't live without my H, that I wouldn't be able to function without him. Boy was I wrong!

I know it doesn't quite feel like it right now, Neecy, but you will be alright, and you will make it through this terrible time. You will come out of it stronger than ever before.

And you're not alone. You have people who care about and love you - here and at home. Remember that. \:\)

(((((Hugs)))))

Now, what's up for GAL this weekend?

Last edited by GoingForward; 05/02/08 04:41 PM.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell