That is the thing..I have tred to gt along with H for the sake of D7. i have been kind. I have told him i understood he is hurtng. I havetold him I hold nothing against him. I have not been able to validate his feelings because he doesn't say anything to me.
I know I am not in the right all the time. But I do feel compassion for him. I do understand how he feels.
I told him I understood him and cared for him and hoped one day we could communicate better.