I think she's back

[cw68]

Good job with the appointment!

I like hearing that you're starting to take some control, too. I just started reading your sitch, so forgive me if this has been covered before, but what exactly are your living arrangements? Do you share a room? Is there another room in which he could live? Regardless, I say move him out of the bedroom, even if that means his stuff is in the dining room! Make your space. Go dark. Follow up with the lawyer. All of this will make you feel better, too.