Do you think that you are comparing him to your ex? What about in other ways? Because I believe that we all tend to do that, but in the process we forget a lot of the bad stuff as well. Have you talked to him about the things that are important to you?
Does he treat you like a Princess? Does he put you before himself? What you described are differences, yes, but those things can be worked on. If you can't say yes to any the above then maybe you're right and you are settling and boy that is something that you should avoid at all costs.
Good luck Sweetie. Life is tricky sometimes, but nobody else has to walk in your shoes (Like that?).
yes Bethie I guess I am comparing him to my X.. bad bad bad. He does treat me very good. he comes here on the weekends and does things around my house without me asking. And yes it is nice. Maybe I am getting scared. Maybe deep down I am worried he will find someone younger, prettier, (likes hunting :/) I might be sabatoging (spelling) it because I dont want to get hurt again. I have been very emotional latley and just saying F it to alot of things in my life. I can't run from this relationship like my X did from ours. I need to give all I have and then if it still does not feel right then I know my answer.
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
