Well Rob, this is what a DB phone coach told me to do when he was playing this game in January. She said one night just don't come home because he expects me to be there whenever he decides to arrive. So by staying the night somewhere else, he will see that I am not sitting around waiting for him to come home. I thought it sounded like a good idea.
You know Kris, everytime I have tried to tell him to pay some of the mortage or bills he has refused. I am not sure how to make someone do anything. Remember the one time when I confronted him about not paying anything, he said something like, "I am trying to save money and I can't pay the bills..." I saw that he has canceled his health insurance. I dont' see how he is trying to save money. It looks to me like he is spending out of control.
I just feel so blah!
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08