Newbie here needing some advice part 2

[CBK]

Interesting discussion. My kids are 19 adn 20 - W says won't affect them, but when I talk to friends whose parents D late in life, they said it was one of the most devistating days of their lives! W doesn't agree and thinks it will not affect them. It will. So it doesn't matter about the age, W's go into fog...

Ping, it sounds like you are doing well. She may be fishing, sounds like it a bit to me - but as you have told many of us, patience and no expectations!

CBK