Hey H4H,

As you know, we are in the same sitc'. I do think my wife is trying to break off with OM as OM is in counseling with his W... My W gave until the end of summer when kids go back to college as her move out date - so I have a lot of work to do. I always hope for the little signs. I would be careful on asking for lunch and stuff like that, I know my W gets mad if I buy her ice cream if she is feeling down - a lot like pursuing, and right not, our W's don't want much to do with us. It is the worst feeling in the world to have W in the house during this time, and at other times a blessing.

Stay tough and look at the bright side - your Spurs are still playing!

Peace,

CBK


M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09