The flame is flickering out...

[Nutty Chick]

I get it. I'm sorry for her fear. I didn't put it there. Honest. I get that it's there. But I didn't put it there.

I see that you’ve been damaged and broken from this forever. Sometimes I see that the mere sight of me is painful for you, and I know it will stay that way. I don’t want to cause you any more pain.

What was the 'this' you were refering to if not your relationship / behaviour?

If you had done nothing wrong why do you accept that the sight of you causes her pain?

Why do you say 'I don't want to cause you more pain' if you did not cause her pain?

Nutty.