So I am still recording in her car just about daily. I probably should stop but I keep learning and gaining more insight. So it is good in that I hear her true feelings about me & where our R stands. It is bad in that I hear about the new guy she is starting to date.
DMP, that must be so painful for you to hear all that! I agree you should probably stop too. You may be learning more bad stuff about your W, but how does that really help you? I think it is probably just hurting you to do that. I can't even imagine hearing my H with the OW. That would be so devastating! I hope you do consider stopping. If you are reading DR, I think that would help you to detach also. Please keep posting!!! Karen
I agree you should probably stop too. You may be learning more bad stuff about your W, but how does that really help you? I think it is probably just hurting you to do that. I can't even imagine hearing my H with the OW. That would be so devastating! I hope you do consider stopping. If you are reading DR, I think that would help you to detach also. Please keep posting!!! 
Karen
