John, I think you are right on, my W is still in love with OM - although those words hurt when she said them, I know she is in a fog. I do believe I still have a shot - I am still hopeful. I just need to settle down and, like you said, play my cards right. My W has few negatives towards me, it is really bizarre to have her in the house with me as sometimes it feels like "normal" whatever that means.
Thanks John - CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09