Wow Limbo and Deuxlie;

You two ladies are so amazing! You both have such courage, I am working on mine!!!

I do see how important it is to confront the past from your posts; but my question to the both of you is this...what if they are deffensive? My h says things like..."oh I forgot..you are perfect"..well to say the least, that pretty much stops me from talking about it any further with him...and I do believe that it is closure for us once LBS's to know that they are taking accountablity for there part in it and that we can build trust with them again.

love and ((((hugs))))
liz7