You two ladies are so amazing! You both have such courage, I am working on mine!!!
I do see how important it is to confront the past from your posts; but my question to the both of you is this...what if they are deffensive? My h says things like..."oh I forgot..you are perfect"..well to say the least, that pretty much stops me from talking about it any further with him...and I do believe that it is closure for us once LBS's to know that they are taking accountablity for there part in it and that we can build trust with them again.