I am tempted to tell her dad again, but I don't wish to burden him with all the troubles! I guess if she confirms it, he might not put the house he recently bought her in her name. He is a shrewed businessman and will probably make sure that the Iranian guy does not get his hands on any assets in the future.
It sounds to me like you may want to talk to her dad so that he can protect his assets from the OM. I normally don't really think it's a good idea to get into telling people about the affairs although I know there are many here that do! But in your case, it seems like your fil has a right to know in order to protect his investments. Whatever he does with that info is then up to him. Karen