I also think you should really talk to a lawyer..but you already know that. I understand the anxiety. Maybe email is the way to go to set up the appointment. You need to know what rights you have with the house and what action to take if you want him to leave.
Originally Posted By: Starshyne
He can't be single and be married any longer. He has to decide one way or the other and stick with his decision. If he wants to be single...fine...be single.
So what would he have to do if he wants to be single? Move out? If you are going to say this to him you have to be prepared for the fact that he may say he does want to be single...then you have to back up your words with actions. If you give him empty threats, then he won't take you seriously and he will continue to do what he is doing.
If you aren't ready to follow through with actions then I would say just do your best to limit contact. I know that is hard being in the same house...but that means no phone calls, no texts, no paying his bills, no cooking for him,..etc.
