Husband, The thing I have noticed about your wife is that she is not a big communicator. I agree with HFF, don't wait for her to bring it up, bring it up yourself. Has she always been a noncommunicator like this and it never bothered you before the bomb or is this something new?
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon