It's funny as the general consensous is not to snoop, yet the more I read various threads, it seems that it's ok if we really need to know something from our S's odd behaviour and we don't get caught !!!
A, I have a need to know. If there is an affair that would be a deal breaker. There would not be a reconcilation. Now my W is acting funny, anyone on her will tell you that all the WAW's involved in an A pretty much follow a script..say the same things. "I care for you, but I'm not in love with you" I feel like your roommate.. I feel like we are brother and sister....
My little voice is telling me something is up.
So, I'm going to see if my little voice is correct or I'm just paranoid..If she goes where she says she's going tomorrow then there is no problem..
To each his own. it's up to each individual whether they check things or not.
