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Also a little later this evening Wife said her mom wants us to take her to "Voulpis".

Ok want to clear something up. First this conv. was with MIL NOT W.

I'm confused (I know, we all are). It sounds like it was MIL's idea, but that your W did come to you and ask about it. Sounds like she could have just told MIL that it wasn't a good idea without ever asking for you input.

No, has not come up.has not come up. have a question for ya though..I amnot doing it for her but don't you think is she did care she would have asked by now how I am doing with my Non smoking?

H, we aren't mind readers. I can't tell you why W hasn't commented on the not smoking. Maybe she doesn't want to jinx anything. Maybe she is still unsure of her feelings and doesn't want to give you false expectations. Maybe you are correct and she just doesn't care, but it doesn't matter. You are doing it for yourself. Make a point of dropping little hints here and there about it. Not something blatent like "Hey W, have you noticed I've quit?". Try subtle "I can't believe how much better everything tastes and smells since I've stopped smoking."

Keep up the good work on the not smoking!