I am the one this marriage that is the "bread winner." My H has a very low paying job that he has only had for 9 months. He was unemployed for most of our marriage. I could afford to leave, but not to pay for the house and my own place. H can't afford to pay for this house, but he could afford a cheap apartment if he wanted. He just doesn't want that right now.
If I left, it wouldn't be for good. Just for enough time to freak out H and have a court say that I can live in the house and he has to leave. There is no way that a court wouldn't say that I could stay in the house, because H can't afford the house payment.
I hate thinking about this stuff....
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
