CBK,
I can not tell you it is a good sign but what I can say is that this sounds very familiar to me. My opinion for what it is worth is that your W (ok maybe mine also) is still in love with the OM. I have a feeling that if you play your cards right, you still have a shot. I am not saying this will happen overnight (that is the mistake we all make) but I did not hear too many negatives from your W towards you. It just sounds like she is a little confused (maybe MLC). Hang in there, it won't be an easy road but if you want it bad enough you will have the resolve.