Trying Hard to Detach

[Starshyne]

I am starting today to go dark while my H is at home. Although I can't say that he really is at home because he stays out until 2am for the past 2 nights. But he refuses to move out because he says he can't afford it.

I am doing what you are doing Eagle, but I am also making a point that I am not helping my H in any way.

--When I did the dishes in the dishwasher, I left out any dish that he had used so that he can wash them himself

--I did not pick up his things like I usually do.

-- I am not going to buy him his cofee and juice at the store.

If I need to tell him something because of money issues or whatever, I am writing it on a message board.

Maybe you should beat your W to the punch and have an arrand to run at the last minute before she does.