Thanks Mike and TGF, Mike I believe the reason she even brought it up was because we spent most of the time in the kitchen and I had the phone bill sitting there on the counter so I'm sure after we were discussing things she brought this up. I want to think it was a test to see where I am in this sitch right now as TGF has pointed out. We will have to see, yes I do get the cell bills now, I can see every number called to her phone and that she calls out, right now I have no reason to be worried.
TGF, my W also believes our kids will be fine with this mess. She came from a broken home and use to talk about how it hurt her as a kid, I guess she has forgotten that now. It amazes me how their minds become so fogged that they forget everything they once knew. But I can say, yesterday was the first time in 5 months she asked me how I thought the kids were doing. Every other time she has told me how she thought they were doing.
Good, then I think she may be testing.
I think it's a positive that she asked you how you thought the kids were doing..Maybe she's now viewing you as a partner, part of the team when dealing with the kids.
My W is a child of D too. She also says our D will be OK..she compalined about not having a Dad growing up but sees our D as Ok without a full time dad. I don't understand their thinking either.
