Oh, looking after kids full time must be super tough, I understand that and empaphise with that and do all I can to give my W some space when I'm around. The swearing and stuff in front of them though, doesn't do anything but teach them a bad lesson.

We dissagree a bit on childcare to, not majorly, but I'm just a bit more leave em when having tantrums whereas my W runs to them, especially if the tantrum involves my involvement so they must be a bit confused. I'm also 100% my oldest plays us off against each other because of that.

I will try and have a good weekend, out with friends a bit and stuff with kids so should be real good. Same to you to and all others on here