Thanks for the reply. W hits me with last minute "I have an errand to run" or "I am going out" and I am stuck with kids. This makes it impossible to GAL.
I am trying to detach as much as possible by: -Being in another room when we are home. - Trying not to be around her at all in the morning (leave early). - Not contacting her at all during the day (replies only). - No deep converations at home (light acquantance type stuff). - Seem disintersted unless hit with a direct question.
I cannot leave w/o losing custody rights and niether can she.