Newbie here needing some advice part 2

[thegoodfight]

Ping,

I believe she is testing, wants to see how much you want to split up right away. It is the hurry deal, part of her wants to get things in order so she can feel better and part of her is very afraid of the "change". All in all, I believe you handled it very well. I agree if the kids are asking questions and upset she should know about it. Everyone involved needs to understand how this affects everyone.

My W. at times still believes our S. will be just fine and it won't bother or disrupt his life. Hah, my parents were divorced when I was 4 and I can remember things from 30 years ago like they happened yesterday. Especially when my Dad had his suitcase in hand and I asked when he was coming back, he said he wasn't. I thought he was going on vacation or something. 30 years ago my friend and it is a fresh as yesterday.

Those that don't think it affects children need to get their head out of their backside. It has huge impact on kids!

Good Job over all!