The flame is flickering out...

[Nutty Chick]

In the letter you wrote split time was the worse thing ever ... now you are saying you expect the kids 50% of the time??


What is the truth?

I mean, come on, it's a divorce. It's 2008. What does she think will happen to the kids?

And what do you mean, was I "just trying to scare her?" ??

Yes, I really expected to get the kids 50% of the time. And I still do.

You wrote that I tried to keep you from seeing your kids again. For my part, it was never a thought that crossed my mind. Honestly. After all we’ve been through, I think you may not feel very trusting of me now. You will choose to trust my words, or not. But here it is: I never had a thought that I wanted to get the kids away from you, I never tried to separate them from you. I see who you are to them, I see you are their mother and they love you and want to be with you. I see that you love them and want to be with them. I love all of that. I cherish that. I am glad you are their mom. and I never want to interfere with that. This seems like a horrible misunderstanding. I think it may have been related to my proposal to move back to Pittsburgh, and re-occupy the house there. I explained in email what that was about. It was not an intention to keep you from the children. For me it was a practical approach to the difficulties we are in. An idea to consider. I always expected you and I would be in Pittsburgh together. It would be a way we could spend more time with the kids, live more affordably, and be nearer to familiar adults and extended family who could support our kids through this difficult time for them. I never wanted to keep you away from the kids. In fact I think the separation between the kids and each parent, that occurs as parents “split time” is the worst. I would not want to make it worse that it will already be for them.

Your note also said you were scared that I would hurt you or kill you or kill myself.

She was in fear of her life SirPrize.

Thats how scared she was.

Nutty.