One other thing I forgot to mention in above post and am needing some feedback on what you all think.
Before W left, she asked me if I wanted to split up our Cell phones from being on the same account, said all we needed to do was go to Sprint and sign them over, stating we would have to do that sooner or later. I told her it didn't matter to me but I had no problem with her staying on it for the time being. She said OK.
Now GL, don't go to thinking anything, I pay our cell bill and it is expensed at work so I have no reason to take her off of it right now.
Was she testing me to see if I would say yes, we need to do that because her mind is wondering right now what is going on with me and checking to see how I stand on the R? I kind of got that feeling after she had left, kind of like testing the waters to make sure he is still in this game or not. As I said in my above post, I let her know that things were fine the way they are now in our R as I want her to know that I will move on. Either she is testing me or she is finsihed in her mind and ready to change the account but I feel if that was the case, she would have said, we need to change the phones now, when can you meet me. Give me some advice please.
Detective in me Ping..No offense intended.
Ping, Interesting about the cell phone. Wonder why that is an issue for her? Are you able to examine the bill closely? I'm wondering if there are numbers on there that she does not want you to see?? Or maybe there are about to be numbers on there that she does not you to see?
Could be a test. I'm sure she is wondering what is happening. You leaving the ballfield the other night may have her wondering if their is OW in the picture?? I would keep doing what you're doing. patiently watch, continue to act "as if". I would make sure my radar is up and really watch what she is doing..It's curious she would mention the cell phone..
Ping- the rollercoaster is coming by you now..don't get on, keep a level head. Don't let your mind get the better of you. We all can overthink things too much at times.
