SirPrize. I really don’t think you are lying .. I really don’t think your wife is lying either. You clearly have different perceptions of the same event.

I think her perception is as equally valid as yours.The way she felt about the way you behved is valid. You may not have wanted her to feel afraid but I believe she did. Why else did she join an abused womans group?

You have strong views and opinions, but are very ridged in your thinking. It must have been hard for your wife to have a discussion with you and get herself heard, as you seem to find it difficult to empathise and accept another person’s point of view.

Nutty


Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.