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she has 2 children of her own, that do not live with her, she doesn't have them on the weekends, either. I'm not sure how much contact she actually has with them or why they don't live with her. I know that they are with their grandparents or their father the majority of the time.


Hmmmmmmmm. While I agree that not all non-custodial moms have problems, one who doesn't even get weekends raises a red flag. Should you be doing some investigating to make sure she's not abusive or a drug addict before you let H take the baby over there?

Ellie