I have to agree with AH. I thought the same things when reading your post. But hey you never know. My X could not tell me he loved me until 4 months into our relationship. As for now the goals you have set sound great! Focus on you!
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher