So I have been doing some thinking. The guy I have been seeing is not the one for me. He makes me frustrated more than he makes me happy. I want to be happy all the time. or most of it anyway. We come from differant backgrounds. I enjoy wine tasting, nice places to eat, the beach, San Fran, etc. He does not enjoy any of that. I also like to eat healthy. No greasy food, no fast food, etc. He does. At least my X and I were on the same page with all that stuff. at one point I told myself to just settle for this guy because I know in my heart he is a good guy, loves me to pieces and is faithful. Do I just settle for safe?
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
