Trying Hard to Detach

[Trixi]

When my H announced he was going to be moving out, it took about a month for him to find a place. My sitch is VERY odd, so what I say might not apply to you, but I just would go out, just like he did. We didn't discuss who was going where, etc, because at that point we weren't really accountable to each other.

How is she blocking GAL activities? Do you mean you make plans to go out and she makes you stay home to babysit or something?

Regarding not telling you who she's going out with or when she'll return- of course she doesn't- she doesn't see herself as accountable to you, right now. You need to be get so busy that you don't care what she is doing. Improve yourself. That's all you can do.