I think she's back

[SDFoundGirl]

You will be a stronger human being for it. It's hard to see now, but I'm on the other side of this saga, and I am a much stronger, better person than I was at the beginning.

I'd say to keep your conversation with H brief. In fact, you may choose to put it in writing to avoid getting sucked in emotionally. Outline your conditions, tell him to make a decision, and then take action based on his ACTIONS not his WORDS. Words are cheap, and actions tell the real story.

You've decided this is non-negotiable for you, right? If so, act. You've already had this conversation with him, and after how many days is he backsliding again?

Good luck. Yes, this hurts, but you will survive.

SD