So what i got from this is we are doing Graceful Detachment.
Blindsided1.. this is your life.. all we want to do is help.
Off we go..
#1.. Fine is not a word you use.. Great, Fabulous, Fantastic, Wonderful, Excellent. You are never Fine or Well. You can mix it up a little with "Why do you ask?" Don't respond to the answer.
#2.. You need to smile more. Proven fact.. if you are smiling whatever you say.. be it on the phone or in person.. will be received better. Make a conscious effort to smile when you are talking to him. Texting does not count here. You need to find something that makes you smile when you think about it. Commit it to memory and think about it before you talk to him.
#3.. I saw the phone conversation. I like it. That was really good. Now this is going to sound really weird. Just bare with me. You are 7 months pregnant? I am going to suggest you go to the store and buy yourself a really nice body pillow. They are really long and you can get them it different firmnesses. Find one that feels lovely. Now pick a girl name. Whatever. If you ever need a out from a conversation just say.. "I need to go. Me and Jane are going to "watch a movie." You can replace "Movie" with whatever. When he asks "Who is Jane?" Just say no one. Gotta go.
#4.. Busy Work. Think outside your comfort zone. There should be lots of free classes you can sign up for about you and baby. Use them. Take up a pregnant swimming class or something. The internet is your friend. Look around.
#5.. OW.. Drop it. It will get you no where. It will eat you alive. No good can come from it. Busy Work will help you with this. Again.. Outside your comfort zone!!
#6.. DO NOT!!.. initiate a txt message. <---- Do you see that?
The only thing you initiate is a call or face to face. You will bring out my "Drama Queen" on this one.
If.. you need to txt.. come here and do it. Post it up get it out of your system. Do not send any txt without being txt'd first. Email.. Same thing..
Why? Because he can't see you smiling!!
Blindsided1.. this is going to be hard.. Trust me he is going to try and draw you out. Don't let him do it. You deserve better. Don't play his game.
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Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
