I liked the letter. I have a similar one for my W, but haven't sent it as of yet. In mine, I told W I was sorry, however I apologized for her losing faith in me, for me not being the rock she wanted, for my insecurities getting in the way of us. Those are the things I said I was sorry for.
I may still send it, but I'm not sure when. I do feel sorry she lost trust in me and felt she needed to step outside our marriage. I do feel sorry she doesn't feel safe w/ me any more. I'm sorry about it, but I'm not completely taking the blame. However, I do feel remorse over everything.
I think it is ok to express these feelings b/c they are real and they don't admit fault on your part. They only admit that you are human and you feel.
Take care, my good friend. RTL PS - Did you ever get my e-mail about football tickets for the fall? Let me know as the offer still stands. I can't use them all, so they'd be yours for the taking.
