This story is exactly the same as mine. My wife dropped the bomb 4 weeks ago that she was never in love with me. I said we can try to get help but she asked how do you fall in love if you have never been in love. That is one tough question to answer. I think my wife has now resigned herself to the fact that we have no future. We are still good friends and we talk and laugh (on my part it is a struggle but trying to follow the advice of DB) I am not sure how I can help her make a connection that was never there. If you have found the answer we need please let me know.