I fully agree with Rob, this OW has had the power much too long....and she knows she has all the control....that's the real sting here! I think the ideal of a phone with caller ID is great. She knows she has your H over a barrel, but maybe it is time to man-up and take whatever comes.....he can't go on forever living under the fear of what she may or may not do. That would drive him to drink worse! I know that is easy for me to say and harder for you all to have to actually live in it....don't mean to sound like I don't have any compassion.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
