Mike, I am going to tell you like I told R2C today, my W and I went to one session early on in our sitch, looking back it did no good whatsoever, it was too early, her walls were to high and she was not going to hear anything that she didn't want to hear. This may be your W right now that's why I was hoping she would go and you turn the tables on her because I believe that would have kept her in it longer for you.
Don't jump to conclusions, she may really be sick.
Do me a favor, check out Jerry161 post out "Calling for Support" he is not getting much feedback and needs some pick me up.