Hi T, You do not owe H any kind of information about you and your L. Just from personal experience DON"T say anything. If H asks again just say that your L is informing you of your rights and has basically gone over state laws.
End it there, you do not want to give your H any fuel for the fire. When H and I were S I filled out all my financials and then he started asking me lots of $$ questions because I am the one who does the bills...little did I know but I supplied him with all the info he needed to do his financials.
When I realized this I was so mad at myself...I think I was thinking that if I was cordial and nice to him things would swing in my favor. NOT!!!
What you and your L are discussing stays between the two of you. Be polite but stick to your ground.
