I will tell H that until he can prove to me that he wants to be my H 100% which means no more contact with whatever women he has on the side, no more staying out all hours of the night, no more sleeping with his cell phone, change his number, etc etc. That I am done with him. I am not doing his dishes, making him meals, helping him in anyway. I will not watch TV with him, chat with him about his day, or do anything out of my way for him. While he is deciding what he wants, I am going to move forward with my life, which may mean talking to a lawyer.
He can't be single and be married any longer. He has to decide one way or the other and stick with his decision. If he wants to be single...fine...be single. Just stop dragging me down with him.
I still love him so much. I still have hope for our marriage. When things look good between us, I can see us together forever. We make a good partnership.
I don't even know if he is planning on coming home tonight. Who knows...he might be out until 2am again. The last I heard from him was at 9am with a text saying "I am trying to change..." No word from him since then. So even if he doesn't come home and I can't tell him these things, then I will have to act on them without saying a word.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
