I joined the hashers Yahoo group so now I'll get notices of events. I was invited to go a couple of times by people I had met but never went mainly because H didn't want to.
The room is done! Now I'm left with 2 large garbage bags of kids clothes and shoes and some baby toys. When H gets back I told him I needed him to hekp me bring it to one of the orphanages here. He said OK.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Good for you on the Hashers group! I think that's awesome.
Now regarding the bags of clothes, figure out how to get them to somewhere yourself. You can do this yourself and you should. Make that be a 180 if need be.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
Yeah I was thinking that too. Also I'll want to get the stuff there ASAP and if H is his usual stuff I could wait a long time. By asking someone else I won't have a reason to nag H to help me out. Maybe I'll ask my friend to help me. I know she would.
Thanks CW
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
There you go! You provided yourself with a solution. Who needs your stinkin' H? (Needing is different than wanting.) And, you'll also be reaching out to someone else. See if you can do this while your D is in FLA. Perhaps you could offer up an hour or so of your time to volunteer while you're at it?
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
There you go! You provided yourself with a solution. Who needs your stinkin' H? (Needing is different than wanting.) And, you'll also be reaching out to someone else. See if you can do this while your D is in FLA. Perhaps you could offer up an hour or so of your time to volunteer while you're at it?
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
Um, get crackin' then. It would probably be noticed, btw.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
Another friend works with Cargill here in Caracas. Cargill has a foundation that raises money for charities and vlonuteers at orphanages. I'm waiting for her to call me back to see if we can arrange something.
I'm working on it.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09