Good for you on the Hashers group! I think that's awesome.
Now regarding the bags of clothes, figure out how to get them to somewhere yourself. You can do this yourself and you should. Make that be a 180 if need be.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09