Hmm, while I understand why you decided to leave, I'm still thinking there might be something there. I mean, you didn't give it much time. Maybe if his friends weren't over but he was still out there you could try again?
Yeah, I didn't give it enough time.
I'll try this tonight. He claims no one will show up this evening. We'll see, but I'll try it again anyway.
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It sounds like he's fishing for WOA here.
I thought so, too. That was why in our last big R talk on Sunday I told him I didn't know what it physically felt like to be him, and that I appreciated just how hard he works to provide for us. I will always be grateful for it.
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As for the rest, I think your actions will speak louder than your words. So...actions....Maybe start planning family stuff and if his work interferes, go anyways?
Yep, I believe that is what I will have to just go ahead and do. My sisters even said the same thing last weekend.
My parents, sisters and their families are going to Tower Park (or is it Lake?) for Mother's Day weekend. I was going to just let the boys go with them, thinking it would give H and me some alone time, but now I'm thinking I'll go, too, and of course, invite H along. The choice will be his.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
