We discussed, kids are to live with me in this house, W to get an apartment and take kids whenever she wants.
I don't understand when she would ever have time for them
We discussed that Mon - Thur wouldn't really be good nights becasue of school the next day, I would be picking them up from after school care at 5:00, then after homework (wife hates) after dinner and after baths, there really isn't much time left anyway.
I really don't know what W is thinking, If she wants them on Friday or Sat, that would crimp her social life, and they need to be in church Sunday morning she doesn't go to church)
Again I really don't know what she is thinking, I feel kids will get short end of stick if she moves out.
She said something about D me, grabbing half of my 401K and buying a house. 1. it wouldn't buy much of a house, 2. I don't know if you can withdraw $ from 401K for D in Missouri. 3. There would be penalties and taxes due. Then she said kids could live with her half the time and me half the time, I really don't like this plan, but I know she though about it
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