Originally Posted By: GoingForward
I did try once, a few weeks back, and haven't tried again since then. I was out there for about 5 minutes when H then asked out of earshot, "What's up? Did you need something?" I said no, I was just hanging out, too. He said nothing but looked a little bothered, and I decided a few minutes later to leave them alone and came inside.
Hmm, while I understand why you decided to leave, I'm still thinking there might be something there. I mean, you didn't give it much time. Maybe if his friends weren't over but he was still out there you could try again?

Originally Posted By: GoingForward
But in his mind, it is nothing compared to what he does to take care of us. My "job" is nowhere near as tough as his job is.
It sounds like he's fishing for WOA here.

As for the rest, I think your actions will speak louder than your words. So...actions....Maybe start planning family stuff and if his work interferes, go anyways?


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